things that say a lot about people

things that say a lot about people:
the way in which they treat the waiter/waitress
how they feel about the weather
whether they dog ear pages or highlight in books
fingernails
and hands in general
their preferred creative outlet
how much they dread/enjoy talking on the phone
whether or not they drink coffee
if they ever forget to eat
how honest they are with themselves (and others)
if they correct your grammar
and whether or not they get nervous before haircuts.


so, I'm a little late onto this one. but I saw some people doing it and I absolutely loved it. and I said to myself, that's so minty biscuits, I'm gonna get round to doin it one day. so here is that one day. and I'm doing it. talk about living on the edge. risky livin', dudes.

the way in which they treat the waiter/waitress. 
ok, so this is a lil weird, coz it depends on the country. in northern england, the waiters/waitresses really give off those why-are-you-here-I-can't-believe-I-have-to-serve-you vibes. so you're like, ok...um. would it be a reeeallly big bother if I asked for another drink?? but in america/new zealand I love to talk with them, coz they're a lot more friendly. I mostly joke around with them or give them an extra thank you and a smile. but what I really love to do, is leave notes on the napkins for them. I do it everywhere.

how they feel about the weather.
rain is not really my best friend. I see a lot of it in england, so we're kinda not really into each other. I adore sunshine and warm weather. it's happy juice. obviously. thunder storms are my absolute favourite. I get really excited about them, guys.

whether they dog ear pages or highlight in books.
I used to be a lot more precious about these things than I am now. dog ears I don't do very often, and highlighting I will do only in certain books. but mostly I'm an old lady when it comes to them both.

fingernails.
on one hand, they are shorter and the other, longer (not as in that figurative turn of phrase, but literally. not as in on one hand, and then on the other...but as in on one hand and on the other. really, it's just a bunch of hands. get it? yeah.). giveaway guitar player. they're nothing special. I paint them sometimes, but then I do the dishes and I'm just like, well, that was a waste of my oh-so-precious-time. because. I mean, my time is soooo precious.

and hands in general.
I'm always cleaning them. I hate sticky hands, so I take anti-bacterial gel with me everywhere. coz I is weird. my mum says I have the cutest hands ever. can people actually have cute hands? I mean, really? cute??

their preferred creative outlet.
writing. singing. talking. designing. any of those. is it possible for singing and talking to be your creative outlet? probably not. but imma makin da rules here, kids.

how much they dread/enjoy talking on the phone.
I used to hate talking to random strangers on the phone, like ringing up to order something or ask a question about a product, but I'm happy to do it now (widdle jiss is gwowing up, right? didn't think so.). and I love talking to friends/family on the phone. skype beats phone calls hands down though. amen and amen.

whether or not they drink coffee.
I literally do not think this is a valid question for me. I'm pretty sure you'd just have to look in my eyes and see coffee in there. it's in my soul. when I go out to meet a friend. coffee. when I'm at home. coffee. when I'm at church. coffee. when I'm at a friend's house. coffee.

if they ever forget to eat.
when I'm busy, I always forget. if I'm out all day, I usually only have two meals that day. and coffee. but if I'm at home, my mama usually reminds me.

how honest they are with themselves (and others).
I'm pretty brutally honest with myself. I know my faults. I know I'm bossy and that I talk too much. I know that I'm sarcastic and cynical. I know that I'm weeeeiiird and not all sane. I know that I take too long to get outta the house and I'm a lazy goodfornothing. with others...I'm not so brutal. I tell the truth to others, but I tend to put it in a....gentler way. but if you specifically ask me to tell you the truth about something, I'll give it to you.

if they correct your grammer. 

hahaha. when it comes to my family....if they write something down in a wrong way or if it's spelt wrong or written with bad punctuation, I'll tell 'em. yup. with others, not so much.

whether or not they get nervous before haircuts.

nope. can't say I've ever been nervous. if I've made my mind up to do something drastic/different, then I've made my mind up. but it usually takes me a while to get the courage to do something drastic. one day. it. will. be. the. bob. cut.

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the happy one from yours truly girl on 8tracks Radio.